Chuck, 5/22/2012 I would like to thank you for your topic call just a friend, finally one of us looking out for the men. As you know Chuck, most women stick together, even when they are wrong and team up on us men. They make it seem that we are the main reasons for their problems, when in fact it takes two to tangle. The reason I am writing you is because I know after you read this you will use it in your blog, so I will get right to the point. I have been dating my lady for over 4 years and I must admit that I love her very much, but she drives me crazy. Every time I try to do something for her, she always complains. When I buy her clothing, give her money, cook, clean and take her out to dinner or even work in her yard its never enough. I care so much about her that I look out for her needs, before I look out for my own. But the main reason I am writing you is because yesterday we had an argument and it was about money or for what I do for her. Long story short she told me that if I loved her and really meant to give her those things, such as money, gifts or other things. That when we argued I shouldn't have brought it up in the first place. Her words exactly, if you didn't want to give me those things then you should have kept them to yourself and besides that if you keep talking about it then those gift weren't from your heart. Man, all I can say is, Wow! From my heart? If I didn't want to give her those things I wouldn't have. Besides that a brother works hard for his money and if I didn't really love her I wouldn't give her any of my money or buy her any thing!You feel me? Women sometimes drive me crazy and none of them seem to appreciate a good thing! Am I tripping, wrong or is she very unappreciative?
Or if you are read this can I call you D? I understand how you feel. Been there and done that man. I have had similar experiences with my past ladies and even an ex-wife. Going through those experiences taught me something, that I had to learn from myself that my father used to tell me. Men and women are not the same, we are built differently. I know I might touch a few women toes by writing what I am about to write but I have to be as my son would say, Real! If the shoe was on the other foot, I would be grateful. Its not going to be many times in persons life, that somebody is going to give you something for free, especially their time or money. I know if it was me, I would be very grateful for the blessing and never would I be unappreciative. Write in, then give your thoughts or opinions on the subject.
Until then have a great day,