Love Me, Love Me Not?
It wasn't until I reached the age of forty, when I understood what my grandmother meant. What brought this to my attention, is while at work I noticed a couple walking into our store, the man was about in his sixties and the woman was about in her twenties. They came in looking for a car and I began to help them. After sometime they began to open up and tell me something's about them, like they were married for four years, no children( other than the two she already had) and that they just bought a house. I could tell that one of them seemed to be very much in love, while the other seemed a little distant, but I ignored that and then began to do my job. I asked the couple who was the car for that they were buying, then the husband said proudly, I am buying this car for my wife. After sometime the husband left because we finished the deal and the wife for some reason began to confide in me. She started to explain her reasons for being married to an older man. She said, I married my husband not because I love him and I married him out of conveyance. I figured she explain since she has been taken advantage of by men all of her life , that when she got the opportunity she would do the same. Then I looked at her, then said, so you are telling me that you are only with your husband, because he can provide for you or give you money? Then she said, Yes, but why are you looking at me like I am some kind of gold digger which I am not? Then I said well its either you love him or you love him not. If you know of any men or women in the same position, please write in , then give your thoughts or opinions on the subject.