For A Lifetime
Since I have been writing for Q & A With Chuck , I have come across many interesting people with various topics and stories to write about. Today's topic is weddings. What someone made me realize today, is that when most of us plan our weddings, we often take years or months to plan something that may only last for a couple of hours, minutes or months, when a marriage is suppose to last a lifetime. After thinking about this all I could do is laugh, not at the thought of marriage, but of the cost of it and the time needed to make this one special event or moment happen. Imagine this if everyone used that same time or effort to plan their lives together instead of their weddings, how successful their marriages would be. What if the bride or the groom used this time to study their spouse and find ways to improve their marriage so that it may last a lifetime? Instead of celebrating one moment, they could instead celebrate several years or anniversaries together.
They could still include their family members or friends in this process just as they would their wedding. How? By asking their family members or friends with successful marriages for advice or ideals to make their own marriage a success. My thoughts are that many of us forget how important a marriage really is and most of our focus is not on the marriage itself, but on the show. Yes, ladies I know that weddings are very important to you and I also know that you want to look beautiful, great or awesome on your wedding day. I also know that you want this day to be perfect or a day that you will remember for a lifetime. Showing off that perfect wedding dress, photos and a beautiful ring. But what good is this day or these things, if your marriage only last for a couple of days, months or years, when you took longer to plan this very special day? Shouldn't your focus instead, be on keeping your spouse happy or making your future marriage last for a lifetime?My advice to anyone who is blessed enough to read this is to invest more time in their relationship and learn how to be happy together as a couple, so that their marriage will last, For A Lifetime. Write in and express your thoughts or opinions on the subject.