If You Don't Somebody Else Will
To give an example of what I am writing about, there is one particular incident that I will never forget. One day I was on my way to work, I noticed this couple arguing and fussing. It was so intense that I thought that they were about to fight. What struck me as odd was they way the woman began to down grade her husband, criticizing his appearance and he performance in bed. Her words exactly were, So what if you give me money, clothes and buy me expensive things. You are fat, ugly, out of shape and style! Your thing is small and no one wants your ugly #@$*# but me anyway! So stop complaining about what I do and let me do me! Then to my surprise her man didn't get angry, he just looked at her then said, Well if I am so less of a man then you can leave. Because if you don't treat me right somebody else will. All I could say was , Wow! And then I rushed inside and started to write this blog. Why? Because in every argument there is an important message, some we listen to and others we choose to ignore. This message to me was very clear. If you have a man or woman at home that you are unhappy with, but they treat you good and with respect, if you don't love them or treat them right somebody else will. The man or woman you treat like trash today, will become someone else's treasure tomorrow. That's right if you don't go to church, out to eat, travel, watch or attend a sporting event, go to family events, choose not to spend time with them or engage in romantic things. Then there is someone out there that willing or able to do those things your refuse to do with them without thought or hesitation. Now while many of you may cry, complain and then say that there are somethings that you won't or refuse to do for your man or woman. My advice is simple love them with all your heart, then treat them right and always with respect. Because, If You Don't Somebody Else Will. Write in, then express your thoughts or opinions on the subject.
Have a wonderful Christmas and A Happy New Year,