Yes there are a lot of single or divorced people in the world who claim to be happy, but if each of them were honest they would admit that being single really sucks, especially during the holidays. It maybe fun or peaceful for a little while, but very soon after a person gets use to their single lives, loneliness creeps in. Coming home to an empty house or bed every night can get lonely or depressing and even though there may be some extra pillows in the bed or a pet to keep them company, nothing can take the place of a warm loving human body. The question is how does one change their situation if they have been single or lonely for most of their lives? By changing their ways, then Reevaluate their lives and realizing that whatever they may have done to this point, hasn't really worked. If it had then they wouldn't be single, lonely or divorced in the first place. My mother would always preach to me, my brothers or sisters that if any of us had a serious problem or if we really wanted our lives to change. The first place she said we should look is at the man or woman that's in the mirror. As she would put it before anything can truly change, one must first change themselves. In other words Reevaluate, because that is the only way someone will change their lives for the better. Reevaluate! Write in then express your thoughts or feelings on the subject.