Was Over Before It Started
I know some may say okay Chuck, I am seeing someone or married to a person now that I am unhappy with, so what do I do now? First have a conversation with the person you are involved with and tell them how you really feel. Chances are your boyfriend, girlfriend, lover or spouse won't agree with you and feel that with a little more time that the two of you can work things out. I hate the be the person that delivers you some bad news, but if you already spent several weeks, months or years working on your marriage or relationship then it isn't going to magically going to change now or over night. Face the facts that your marriage or relationship has been over for months or years and you haven't really paid attention to your own feelings. In your hearts of hearts you know that you would like to move on, but you haven't yet summoned up enough courage to bring this to an end. So you go on another month or year into an unhappy, very unhealthy marriage or relationship making promises to yourself that one day you will bring this to an end. My question to the person that may happen to be reading this is, What's wrong with today and why wait to change something today only to wait until tomorrow? Your life is in your hands and only you can make it better for the future. If you really want a happy life then its up to you to make the necessary changes to your life. Remember nothing in your life will change until you really realize that what you could do bad all by yourself and it Was Over Before It Started. Write in then express your thoughts or feelings on the subject.
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