I know if you happen to be reading this you may say, Chuck he or she is a very nice person, they are very friendly, I like having them around, they are fun, giving or generous, they are great or awesome in bed and we are really good friends. But if the person you are dating or seeing happens to want something more than yourself or more than you are willing to give, then you should do what's best for the both of you then , move on. No one should have to wait or have to put their life on hold until the person they interested in gets their act or life together. I always believed that most people don't just breakup out of the blue, file for a divorce or leave someone because things are hard, wrong or because it doesn't feel right, they leave because its no longer worth it. Life if to short to hold onto something that isn't worth it or to someone that doesn't give dam about the other person's feelings. That's why I am encouraging each person ,on both of the sides of this issue to let go and move on. As an adult every man or woman should know what they want or expect out of the person they are interested in dating or thinking of engaging in a relationship with. Life is to short and its time to move on. That's right goodbye or Next! Write in then express your thoughts or feelings on the subject.