One of the hardest thing to do as a man or a woman is managing their own emotions. These days its very easy to get angry or upset, people say things about you that are untrue, try to do things that may wreak your plans or they try to get even because you have chose to move on. The question is how does one manage their emotions, keep from being angry or drawn into doing something they may regret forever? How does one keep other people, from ruining your day or getting under your skin? By taking a deep breath, analyzing the situation, realizing that you have nothing to gain and more to loose by being angry! Yes its hard, but in the end intelligence always wins against stupidity.
Never forget, not only for other's, but also for yourself. As a giving and loving person I always try my best to help, please or inspire others for their own good, but at times I forget about myself. I never knew how much I needed a vacation until I took one this past week. After the death of my son(Marcus Holmes), I smiled on the outside, putting on a brave face and at the same time helping anyone I could. But God, as he always does, knows what you need without even asking. My thought today as you help or please others, Never Forget About Yourself.
One of the most disturbing things to me is when couples argue, fuss or fight in public. Its very sad to witness men or women demean or insult their spouse in public, online or on Face Book. What these people don't realize, is if person insult's their better half in public or online they are only insulting themselves. Its a very bad look that no couple should want anyone, especially the public to witness.
Why are some relationships or marriages complicated?🤔🤨😏🙄 Because people make them that way.😏 Nothing in life is perfect, but in order to move on, one must first let go then cut off all ties from their previous life.😮 That way any mistakes made while starting new, will be new, not the same old mistakes made from the previous relationships or marriage.💖
Sometimes to people you love or put your trust in are the main ones that hurt you.😳😫 Until they need or want something they have no use for you. 😶🙄😏They avoid your calls, make excuses why they don't answer your text and for some strange reason when you want to spend time with them then all of the sudden they are sick or have an illness.🤐😣 Convenient for them but never for you, that's when you say don't take my kindness for weakness because it happens to be a strength that they wouldn't understand.😎🤔
If you happen to be reading this then you know the world happens to be a ruff place. With all the bad news, there is one thing that's for certain, you are a child and true blessing from God. Its not fake news, some rumor you may have heard or any gossip from your co-workers family or friends, God loves you! You are just as entitled as anyone else to have a seat in Heaven praising our Father God.
These are just some of my Random Thoughts.
Have an awesome day,