Have you ever got into something like a relationship or marriage and said to yourself, this is not," What I signed up for or isn't what I expected? Funny how we all set ourselves up for heartache or failure, because we put all of our trust or faith into someone we hardly know, just to be disappointed. What amazes me is how often most of us allow ourselves to be fooled all over again. It's also silly to me is that so called intelligent men or women , keep dating the same type of guys or girls and expect different results. Most of them would cry or say I can't find the right man or woman, while others would imply that the supply of the good men or women are dried up. News flash if one type keeps disappointing you or breaking your heart try something new and try something new by Testing The Waters. There is no book or manual that says a certain height, weight, class or race will guarantee you true happiness. That's why I am encouraging you today to keep an open mind and when your mind is clear or your heart is in it truly date. Which means keep all options on the table including dating outside your race. After all love is cooler blind and you never know what form your King or Queen may appear in. Get excited about dating again and leave the past behind. Also keep this in mind until you fully commit yourself to someone, you can still explore your opinions. Get out there try something new, enjoy yourself then have some fun and start Testing The Waters so that you could one day find true love. Write in then leave your thoughts or views on the subject.